group~body study & research containers
together—in trauma-informed, disability-aware and earth-centred spaces—we practice agency & liberated consent, make space for curiosity, exploration, desire, play & pleasure, and queer the normative patterns that say touch & intimacy should be saved for romantic couple dynamics. we make space for noticing conditioned tendencies & patterns, and for exploring new possibilities.
as a facilitator, i play at the intersection of sexuality, spirituality and identity. i am fascinated by containers that allow us to break apart, or melt into one ecstatic organism, and that return us to our separate selves—reorganized and transformed. in doing this work, i believe that minding each individual vessel’s identity, baggage & resilience is of utmost importance.
i am a commitment to cultivating an embodied feeling of interconnectedness. my work is about combining pieces of the portals i know—sex-possible culture, dance, improvisation, play, connection with~as earth—and accessiblizing them for my queer community. in doing that, i hope to cultivate aliveness & connection, in ways that feel sustainable & safe-enough to integrate & apply in our daily lives.
i facilitate and curate playful & generative programs with my friends at SKINSHIP. i sometimes work with Karada House.
i’m part of a collective stewarding a regular grief-tending ritual in berlin, inspired by practices of the dagara people as brought to the west by sobonfu somé & malidoma patrice somé. led by rotating facilitators, so that everyone can grieve.
(with almond linden) an erotic spell for collective re-enchantment thatweaves together consent games, a potent witchy ritual and a cosmic juicy playspace. a meeting point of spirituality, sex&sensuality, ecosexuality and play for queers of all genders.
inspired by dr. betty martin’s “wheel of consent”, this hands-on container offers a radical inquiry into the nature of giving and receiving, and introduces a practice whose goal is to help us get in touch with and communicate both desires & boundaries.
(with viiiii/soil) this is about undoing romantic & sexual relationships as THE ONLY sites of pleasureable touch and holding. it is about FRIENDSHIP MAKING ALL THE DREAMS COME TRUE. it is about inventing new words (or spells!) for our new relationships in the next world that we are building. for touchy feely friendlovers loverfriends, from all kinds of queer planets and orientations.
we connect with ourselves first in a practice of embodied self-love, supported through breath, voice, movement & touch. we allow ourselves to be inspired by one another. once our fountains are gushing and overflowing with fluids, we can come into touch as a group ~ connecting from a place of fullness.
a 4-days sexual empowerment retreat, supporting queers in getting to know themselves better ~ love their physical & erotic body ~ respecting themselves tenderly & fiercely ~ connecting with emotions, boundaries, fantasies & desires. vulnerable sharing, theory, practical exercises, movement, dance, meditation, writing, sensuality, sexuality & collective body experimentation.
raves can be beautiful, transformative, community-building practices. they can also be overwhelming and challenging. through clear framing, rave intention circles can help us stay centered while moving through deep unknowns, and help us find out: what do i want to cultivate ~ individually, collectively?
(this is an open recipe. find the zine here.)
ecosensual ritual forest walk. let’s slow down, come into love & compassion as earth, develop intimacy & touch with the more-than-human. sense earth as the fierce & nourishing lover that they are. feel ourselves as nature, and open up to sense beyond what we think we know. we create magic by imagining it. (inspired by annie sprinkle & beth stephen’s ecosex practices)
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