client-led, trauma-informed and centred around your agency and pace, we focus on staying within your window of tolerance, allowing you to learn & expand without overwhelming your system.

this work can be done with clothes on, investigating boundaries and communication, safety, self- and co-regulation. this can optionally serve as preparation for bodywork, which we only get to bodywork if & when it feels safe enough.

while exploring themes that are on your heart~mind~genitals, we arrive in the present moment, bringing awareness to and observe what happens in your body: physically, emotionally, erotically and energetically. connecting the body with the mind paves new pathways, and allows agency and your capacity for pleasure to expand.

we work outside of the paradigm of attraction, to find a state of arousal that’s free of fantasy, unfinished emotional business, religious dogma, cultural conditionings and habitual sexual behaviours. in this flowing state, the body can become a source of confidence, love, wisdom and freedom.

the contained environment, slowness and continuous communication allow for emotions to come up and be held—ones that might stay hidden in other settings. together, we come into relationship with these at a manageable pace.

over the course of one session or more, we can work with a wide range of modalities: wheel of consent exercises ~ self-pleasure coaching ~ anal, genital & body mapping & massage ~ pleasure exploration ~ scar tissue massage. (more about what we can do together.)